By Dr. Pasquine Ogunsanya | Executive Director
Henry’s wife passed away 25 years ago, but looking at him now, you’d think it happened yesterday. His body stiffens as he talks about her, pausing every so often to extract himself from the memories passing through his head.
“We didn’t know until it was too late,” Henry said. “And after she passed, everything changed.”
Back in 1993, Henry had barely realized what happened until his wife was gone. Henry contracted HIV from another partner and unknowingly passed it along to his wife. After she died, Henry was left to care for four children and his elderly mother, all the while battling HIV himself.
At the time, HIV was severely stigmatized in his community, making it difficult for Henry to openly seek help and treatment.
Henry would walk from health clinic to health clinic attempting to find antiretroviral medication. More often than not, he’d reach the pharmacy counter just to be turned away. It seemed that there were never enough antiretrovirals for everyone suffering, causing Henry’s health – and the wellbeing of his family – to drastically decline.
“I was so depressed during those years,” Henry said. “It was hard to get medication, and it was frustrating to have nowhere to go for help.”
Poor health, guilt and depression began to consume Henry, making it nearly impossible to work, feed his family, and gather the strength to keep on living. When he and his youngest son, Richard, came down with tuberculosis, they could barely afford the medication they needed to stay alive.
Eventually, a friend referred Henry to Alive Medical Services, a small clinic that had just opened up near Henry’s house. He has remained an active client ever since, returning again and again for treatment over the last 10 years.
“Without Alive, I wouldn’t have made it,” Henry said. “I’m healthier now than I’ve ever been, not just because I get free ARVs, but because I get free treatment of opportunistic infections too.”
After his health stabilized, Henry was able to recommit himself to his children, all of whom are HIV negative. Henry worked constantly to earn enough money for school fees. Because of that, his first three children now have families of their own – and his youngest son, Richard, just recently finished his degree.
Your support to Alive Medical Services ensures clients like Henry get the treatment and support they need, free of charge. Henry is healthy. His children are healthy. And though he lost his wife, partners like you have made it possible for Henry to have a stable, secure place to access antiretrovirals, counseling, and food aid for nearly a decade.
Richard now works as an electrician, and a few weeks ago, he accompanied his father to the clinic for his routine checkup, just like he always does. The treatment Henry receives at Alive Medical Services is one of the most reliable aspects of his life, Richard said, and both father and son are grateful for that.
“Today, I’m proud to tell my story and show people how I’ve survived," Henry said.
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